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Showing posts with label what to wear. Show all posts
Showing posts with label what to wear. Show all posts

Thursday, December 3, 2009

Wardrobe Malfunctions and Functions

Over the past 5 years, I have totally changed my wardrobe.  Working with children on the Spectrum has made buying clothes a very concious decision.

My goal is to look professional, while still being able to get on the floor and move around quickly.  I wear only clothes that can be washed, not dry cleaned.  It is easy to get 'bodily fluids' on clothes. :)   I rarely wear jeans.  Wear pants that you can easily move in--I have even found SOME without elastic waists.  (Meijer's had a great pair and I bought all 3 colors.)   In the warmer weather, I wear gaucho or capri pants.  If it is very hot, the longer "board shorts" work well.  If possible comfortable shoes are a plus, but may not be very fashionable. Keeping a pair of gym shoes in the car will work, just in case.    When I am inside a home, I take my shoes off and put on non-skid slippers.

Shirts without buttons are highly recommended.  Some kids can fixate on buttons or they can get torn off, either accidentally or when a child gets frustrated and lashes out.  I also try to wear shirts that are short sleeved, with no "v" necks.  Lower necklines are easy to pull on, thus being torn or stretched out.   I then wear a jacket over the shirt.  The jacket  usually has pockets where I can keep my cell, kleenex, or any other items I may need and adds to the professional appearance.   After about 15-20 minutes of PLAY, the jacket usually comes off.  If I  leave a PLAY session without my bangs being straightened by sweat, I wonder if I could've done something different.  

Other than the same pearl posts in my ears and my watch, I wear NO jewelry (even my wedding ring) because it either will scratch the kids or, if it is delicate, it gets broken.  I have an inexpensive Timex watch that is about as flat as I could find and has a leather band.  I  also have to be sure to put my glasses away, unless I'm with higher level kids who want to read. 

In  Summer, I keep a bathing suit (with racer back straps, to avoid having the straps pulled down) and towel in my car, as some of my clients have pools and/or lakes, and swimming is a wonderful PLAY activity.  In Winter, I keep boots and ski bibs in my car, in case some of my higher level kids want to PLAY outside.  I try to stay inside with kids who have not reached Level 5 or are not very solid in their lower levels (1-3).  It is too easy for them to get distracted, but if there is an activity (such as swimming) that requires them to "be with" me, then I will jump in and have a blast!



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